ALL I WANT TO BE IS MYSELF
AND IT'S A BATTLE THAT IS
WORTH FIGHTING FOR
Who Marinella, The Fervent Flask, is
++ Marinella is confident, self assured, and capable. She is not easily intimidated. She masters any and all skills easily. She works hard for what she wants. She makes her life out to be exactly how she wants it. And she'll knock down anyone who gets in her way! She is usually the best at everything. She strives for perfection.
++ She can be wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. She's always up to something. She has a ton of energy, and most people can't handle her. She's very intense. She definitely is a handful, and she's likely to get in trouble. But her kind of trouble is a lot of fun. She tends to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get her excited... which can be a good or bad thing. She has a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. She doesn't stick with any one thing for very long.
++ She has the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Her biggest problem is making sure she finishes the projects she starts. She is very intuitive and wise. She understands the world better than most people. She also has a very active imagination. She often gets carried away with her thoughts. She is prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. She sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals. She is friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. She works hard not to rock the boat. Her easy going attitude brings people together.
++ At times, she can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, she pulls it together. She is relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. She is light-hearted and accepting. She doesn't get worked up easily. Well-adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what her secret to life is.
Marinella's Enneagram is THE HELPER
1.) Twos are empathetic, sincere, and warm-hearted. They are friendly, generous, and self-sacrificing, but can also be sentimental, flattering, and people-pleasing. They are well-meaning and driven to be close to others, but can slip into doing things for others in order to be needed. They typically have problems with possessiveness and with acknowledging their own needs. At their Best: unselfish and altruistic, they have unconditional love for others.
2.) When Twos are healthy and in balance, they really are loving, helpful, generous, and considerate. People are drawn to them like bees to honey. Healthy Twos warm others in the glow of their hearts. They enliven others with their appreciation and attention, helping people to see positive qualities in themselves that they had not previously recognized. In short, healthy Twos are the embodiment of “the good parent” that everyone wishes they had: someone who sees them as they are, understands them with immense compassion, helps and encourages with infinite patience, and is always willing to lend a hand—while knowing precisely how and when to let go. Healthy Twos open our hearts because theirs are already so open and they show us the way to be more deeply and richly human.
3.) Average to unhealthy Twos seek validation of their worth by obeying their superego’s demands to sacrifice themselves for others. They believe they must always put others first and be loving and unselfish if they want to get love. The problem is that “putting others first” makes Twos secretly angry and resentful, feelings they work hard to repress or deny. Nevertheless, they eventually erupt in various ways, disrupting Twos’ relationships and revealing the inauthenticity of many of the average to unhealthy Two’s claims about themselves and the depth of their “love.”
Basic Fear: Of being unwanted, unworthy of being loved
* Basic Desire: To feel loved
* Enneagram Two with a One-Wing: "Servant"
* Enneagram Two with a Three-Wing: "The Host/Hostess"
Key Motivations: Want to be loved, to express their feelings for others, to be needed and appreciated, to get others to respond to them, to vindicate their claims about themselves.
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